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Saturday, 11 April 2020

Addressing the Elephant in the Room

Addressing the elephant in the room...
West Edmonton Mall — North America's largest — is a ghost town.

Navigating through much of its forty-eight block area, past pristine shuttered shops, gives one a post-apocalyptic feeling. It's like being in a movie.

Just a few months ago, on a Friday that also coincided with a teachers' convention weekend, the only parking space I found was so tight that I had to ask my mother to guide me when I backed out. The rear "haunch" of my vehicle barely cleared a double pillar by a couple of inches. During holidays, it's usually a gas guzzling adventure to find a spot to leave your car when you come here.

That same gas is now selling for a price that I'm sure I haven't seen in about twenty-five years.

It's a weird time. And that's putting it mildly.

Life took a u-turn into a whole other dimension for people in my community in mid-March. On Friday, kids came home from school as usual, but by Sunday, schools were closed indefinitely, one week ahead of spring break. In the ten days that followed, we heard increasingly dire messages from all levels of government, culminating with: go home and stay home.

By the end of the month, all non-essential businesses were locked up and restaurants could no longer offer in house dining. Don't go out unless you have to, but if you are out, stay two metres (six feet) apart.

To date, I've purposely avoided discussing the unprecedented challenge facing our world.


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If you're anything like me, you hear the latest news and statistics in the morning and then you get another dose of them in the evening. It's our duty as citizens to stay informed, and to put into practice what our medical experts and professionals recommend.

That said, I need a fence around some areas of my life to keep as a safe refuge, for my own sanity. I need — and I think we all need — a place to get away from the depressing daily deluge. Blogging provides me with some semblance of the "old normal", so apart from today, I will continue to post about the same things in the same way that I've been doing for the past six and a half years. This blog is not going to become my personal COVID-19 diary.

So to those of you reading who may have wondered why I've been largely ignoring this undeniably life altering event, that's why.

Also — to tell the absolute truth — I probably can't speak my mind about this without getting overly political. The government of the country to our south is led by a naked emperor who fiddles his way through the crisis. His attempt to direct a manufacturer not to export N95 masks to us this past week was beyond infuriating. Generally speaking, as the USA goes, so goes Canada; we have historically been so interconnected as to almost be one. But at times like this, I'm reminded that we are not "one", and quite frankly, I thank all the forces in the universe for that distinction.

But there, you see? I've already said too much by being absolutely honest. I long ago decided that there's no place for politics on this blog, either.

As I described at the top of this post, my home city is topsy-turvy right now. Apart from going outside and getting some individual exercise, there is really nowhere to go to ease the mind from over thinking on the pandemic. Nothing is open except essential services. National parks are closed. Provincial parks are closed. City playgrounds are off limits to children. There are no organized sports taking place. Traffic jams are a thing of the past.

Basic grocery shopping has become this weird, stressful experience, meticulously planned and consisting of grabbing items as efficiently as possible while staying a proper distance away from fellow shoppers. At times, people have to line up and wait outside to avoid over-crowding on the inside. Some stores have markers on the floors indicating one-way aisles and traffic cones dictating separation while we wait to check out. We look at each other with worried faces — if they're not covered by a mask — and nod politely.

Oh, and here's the ultimate irony of this situation: reusable bags are verboten in many places. Plastic bags are free again. (I've been leaving my items in the cart, packing them into my bags when I get back to the vehicle.)

I don't sleep well at the best of times, but now I often wake up in the early hours with my mind churning over odd details of this pandemic. I feel for helpless seniors trapped in long term care homes where outbreaks have occurred and am ever grateful that my mother lives in her own house and is not endangered by outside caregivers.


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During the day, I say to myself, "we will overcome". Because truly, whatever doesn't kill us will only make us stronger. Meanwhile, I have no doubt that things will still get worse before they get better, even with our relatively well managed provincial and federal response. It's scary.

But then, the old saying that when life gives you lemons, you make lemonade resonates with me as well. Therefore, when we were given the unofficial order to stay home, I decided to pursue some pandemic projects.

But what will they be?

What might I want to take on during this period that I'll look back on in the coming years as being a new experience, a learning experience, a memorable experience — beyond the obvious, that is.

For the sewing side of things, I flipped through some of the projects that I've admired in the past but had no desire to do, for various reasons (like too involved, takes too much fabric, etc). What better time to change it all up, toss aside the excuses and say, I'm doing this!

Here's my first choice:

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Tropical Rug sewing pattern (image courtesy of AGF Studios)...

However, I may not lay it out on the floor as a rug; it may end up being a wall/window hanging, like my hanging Christmas tree. We'll see how it plays out.

I'll document my progress on this leafy project over the coming weeks. In the meantime, if you'd like to see my non-sewing pandemic projects, check in regularly at this new page; I'll be adding to it as I think of things to do during this surreal time.

'Til next...



12 comments:

  1. Michele MishlerApril 11, 2020 9:09 am

    I am finding my refuge in my sewing room, with the goal of thinning down my stash! I have finished two quilt tops thanks to Anna at Thimbleanna, created not scary embellishments for a child's face mask, and I'm teaching my 5 year old grandson how to sew. This has been such fun for me--I've been sewing since I was three, so his interest is so much fun to watch develop! Being a bright little boy, I suspect his interest is mostly in the fact that it runs and has buttons to push, but he made a pillow with just a little help and is excited about the next project! I am so thankful for a vocation that has provided me with a creative outlet, a community, an income and in this crisis, a refuge.

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    1. Amen to that, Michele! Love what you're doing with your grandson and I hope he grows up with an appreciation of a craft that's as useful as it is creative. Several sewing enthusiasts have said to me that this crazy time will afford them with the chance to do all of the sewing that they've always wanted to do.

      Let's all do our parts in putting a dent in those fabric stashes out there!

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    2. By the way, are you "the" Michele Mishler who's part of the Sew4Home team??

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  2. One silver lining in all this insanity is that I am sewing a lot. Masks, which I never thought I'd be making, but still, it's sewing. Part of the old normal, and it will damn well be part of the new normal too.
    That tropical rug caught my eye... but I'm thinking individual place settings (I usually change any pattern I work on). Thank you for pointing it out.
    The other silver lining... the planet is getting a breath of fresh air... I can only imagine the air in the Calgary parks I visited last summer is even fresher and the water clearer.
    And oh I so totally agree with the bit about the US Nero. Thanks for the laughs, inspiration and common sense.

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    1. You are so very welcome, and thanks in return for taking the time to share your thoughts.

      Yes, it is ironic that in the midst of this chaos, our planet is getting a break from the usual environmental assault. I read the other day that Los Angeles had the best air quality out of all major cities... whodathunk that? Hopefully all of the plastic bags and gloves that we're now using don't end up in the oceans.

      BTW, the "tropical rug as place settings" idea exists on AFG Studios as a separate pattern. Check it out and you won't have to change it as much. ;-)

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  3. Well said; everything. And that leaf project is actually on my list! I found the patterns through your blog post awhile back. I will be doing the place settings one and I already have some nice weather-worthy fabric that I ordered special for the project. They will be a birthday present for my son-in-law because number one, he has a monstera plant that he loves, and two, they have a beautiful patio to utilize the placemats. I'll be working on that after I finish a table runner for my daughter.
    Kathleen -- kakingsbury at verizon dot net
    PS - remember to look up at the night sky. I hear it is so much clearer for stargazing during this pandemic.

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  4. Together we will get through this and you are doing your part to help. Maybe this crisis will wake up your country to opt for a more sensible path this November.

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  5. Yes! It's me! I'm currently waiting on thread to finish up on the "next project", something that is just right for these times.

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    1. Well, it is an honour! I have long admired your perfect stitching from afar and hope that my past compliments have reached you through Liz.

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    2. Michele MishlerApril 13, 2020 8:23 am

      Now I'm overwhelmed! I have a background in dressmaking, creating and designing custom, special occasion and wedding dresses, so finish has always been important to me. My work as an educator for Janome America gave me the opportunity create and write, and introduced me to Liz. I love this job!

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    3. And I love that we've been able to connect like this. Looking forward to seeing your talents on display on future Sew4Home projects!

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  6. I too live to the south. I try also not to get political. On your description of one said person though...I think that was a complete disservice to compare ... to poor Nero. He had the excuse of years of inbreeding.

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